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http://ift.tt/eA8V8J Dear Bunmi, I met my boyfriend months after my marriage broke up. After a few dates, I moved in with him though I kept my flat where my two children lived with my mother. It was a complete disaster. I discovered he was a heavy drinker and took drugs. He’d disappear on a drinking spree and came home in an awful state. He  couldn’t even go after the petty contracts that used to sustain him and he made it  clear he didn’t want a real relationship. I did all I could to help him but he’d say I was stupid and useless, and he was  a nasty bully. When he was sober though, he could be so nice. But most of the  time, we ended up having violent rows. He even threatened to kill me once. We eventually broke up recently and I’ve just found out that he stole a lot of  money from me. I’m totally devastated. I don’t even know if I could live without  him. Juliana, by e-mail. Dear Juliana, It’s sad you’ve suffered this humiliation. The end of you...

http://ift.tt/eA8V8J Instead of responding to the words of Eric Joyce, the former British MP who told the world via his twitter handle on 19th May that President Muhammadu Buhari had died in a London hospital, Deacon Femi Adesina, the Special Advisor to the President on Media, in an essay titled “They Learnt Nothing and They Forgot Nothing”, wrote like a true corpsocrat, refused to clarify the matter and instead said that he was ready to follow Buhari “into battle blindfolded”. Clearly my good friend Adesina has much to learn from an essay that yours truly wrote last week titled “The Language of Slaves”. I urge him to read it. He also has a lot to learn from President J. Trump’s words when he said, “In America we worship God and not Government. We are a nation of true believers”. My advice to Adesina (and it is from the heart because he knows that I really do like him) is to firstly stop worshipping Government and secondly to seek the face of God on this matter. I also advise him...