She’s using our son as a bargaining chip
http://ift.tt/eA8V8J DearBunmi, About three years ago, against my better judgment, I went out with this girl who was tagged an ‘easy lay’ by the boys. All I wanted was a bite at the cherry like everybody was having, but she later told me she was pregnant. I denied the pregnancy outright but gave her money to have an abortion. Unknown to me, she did no such thing and with my mum’s connivance, she had a baby boy. As luck would have it, the boy looked so much like me that I fell in love with him. I decided to support her and my son any way I could. I got married last year and this girl was furious. She has now refused to let me see my son on a regular basis. Whenever she wants me to see him, she would bring him to my matrimonial home knowing my wife’s child is a girl. She’s decided to call the boy “Junior” without even consulting me. She’s sworn I would never have another son for what I did to her. But what did I really do but to stand up to my responsibility? I want peace in my lif...